A Girl - A Purpose

You'd do anything for a girl. You stop doing whatever you like, you'd catch a grenade for her, you learn something new so you will have things to talk to her, you change yourself to a new man, the kind that she likes (wants). Yet somehow that wasn't enough.

A mysterious creature

Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars. Really? That's what you think the explanation for the way they act? You took your time reading books about girls watched all the chick flicks you can get asked bunch of questions about what they're like, how they do things, so that you could get a clear picture on what do they really want. But at the end of the day, none of those matter when you're in a situation where you have to apply all the stuffs you prepared.

YOU CAN'T PLEASE THEM. Don't try to understand them, or you will be crazy, or turn gay.

A problem

Everything is wrong, everything is other people's fault, everything is complicated, everything is hard, everything is confusing. And they tell you all of this, we men are fixer. We identify the problems, we fix them (rationally). And when we tried to fix their problem, we become one of their problem. It seems that all they want is to have someone to "listen". We listened, hence the help, but they don't want the help.

A gift

But no matter what they are, what they do, how they think, admit it guys, they are important to us. A guy would be very lonely, won't get the chance to help someone fix stuff, and his life would be empty and colourless. Ever watched a black and white movie?

I know it is great to have life without complications, but that would be boring, and purpose-less. They have such a delicate way to get into our hearts. There are reasons why God The Almighty created girls for boys.

So, you, who has a girl in your life. treat her as if she is the queen/princess of your life. Cater what she needs, get her what she wants. You won't regret it.

Something to ponder:

Nelson Mandela spent 27 years in a South African prison, got beaten and tortured everyday for 27 years. Made to do hard labour in 100-degree South African heat for 27 years, and did it with no problems. He got out of jail, after 27 years of torture, spent six months with his wife and got divorce.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012